A common theme I’ve noticed spanning across our recent podcasts is the concept of self-care. While it may seem counterintuitive, a leader’s ability to show up for their team (through things like eating well and sleeping soundly) puts us in a better place to serve. Terri Lonowski of Soulful Listening joins me to share her secrets for becoming a better communicator. Two key takeaways? Listen more than you speak… and take care of yourself. It all comes together folks!
Dive In:
04:00 Meet Terri and learn how her grandmother inspired her love for listening.
08:00 “Over half of the American population is lonely.” Terri details the negative health effects of feeling alone (it’s equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes per day!).
10:00 The first element of soulful listening: self-care.
12:50 Becoming fully present is our second element of soulful listening. Terri shares a key activity she walks her live audiences through, which you can do at your desk or wherever you are!
15:30 What is quantum listening? Terri explains how active listening and empathy create the third element of soulful listening.
16:30 Terri explains the “secret sauce” of soulful listening!
17:00 The feedback loop is our fifth and final element of soulful listening. In order to truly help others, we must first hear them.
19:00 Brandon shares his thoughts on soulful listening and a story of “filling the space” from his childhood. “It’s a full body experience.”
23:30 Is there one element most individuals struggle with most? Terri shares.
24:00 Terri’s Life Hack: “Start small.”
Show Resources:
- Take a deeper dive into soulful listening with Terri’s recent TEDx Talk, Nobody’s Listening and It’s Killing Us!
- Avoid making messy decisions fueled by urgency with my book, The Hot Sauce Principle.
- To download this show and catch up on others, find us on iTunes, Stitcher, Google Play, Spotify and YouTube.
- Catch a new episode of The Workplace Therapist Show Monday mornings on Facebook Live.