A common theme I’ve noticed spanning across our recent podcasts is the concept of self-care. While it may seem counterintuitive, a leader’s ability to show up for their team (through things like eating well and sleeping soundly) puts us in a better place to serve. Terri Lonowski of Soulful Listening joins me to share her secrets for becoming a better communicator. Two key takeaways? Listen more than you speak… and take care of yourself. It all comes together folks!
Dive In:
04:00 Meet Terri and learn how her grandmother inspired her love for listening.
08:00 “Over half of the American population is lonely.” Terri details the negative health effects of feeling alone (it’s equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes per day!).
10:00 The first element of soulful listening: self-care.
12:50 Becoming fully present is our second element of soulful listening. Terri shares a key activity she walks her live audiences through, which you can do at your desk or wherever you are!
15:30 What is quantum listening? Terri explains how active listening and empathy create the third element of soulful listening.
16:30 Terri explains the “secret sauce” of soulful listening!
17:00 The feedback loop is our fifth and final element of soulful listening. In order to truly help others, we must first hear them.
19:00 Brandon shares his thoughts on soulful listening and a story of “filling the space” from his childhood. “It’s a full body experience.”
23:30 Is there one element most individuals struggle with most? Terri shares.
24:00 Terri’s Life Hack: “Start small.”
Show Resources:
- Take a deeper dive into soulful listening with Terri’s recent TEDx Talk, Nobody’s Listening and It’s Killing Us!
- Avoid making messy decisions fueled by urgency with my book, The Hot Sauce Principle.
- To download this show and catch up on others, find us on iTunes, Stitcher, Google Play, Spotify and YouTube.
- Catch a new episode of The Workplace Therapist Show Monday mornings on Facebook Live.
Therapist, professor, consultant and radio host, Brandon Smith brings an upbeat, witty approach to the challenges of workplace health and dysfunction. 



